Make a difference: talk to your child about alcohol
- The average age when youth first try alcohol is 11 years for boys and 13 years for girls.
- By age 14, 41% of children have had least one drink.
Alcohol use is very dangerous for young people and it is crucial to help your child avoid it as long as possible. In fact, the longer your child can delay use, the less likely they are to have any problems associated with alcohol as they grow into adulthood.
As a parent or caregiver, you are the greatest influence in your child’s life. Research shows that the closer the relationship between parent/guardian and child, the longer a child will delay alcohol use. Encourage open and trusting conversations with your child by discussing their interests, being an active listener, using open-ended questions, and respecting your child’s viewpoint. If you disagree with their viewpoint, explain why and help them understand.
Parent Pointers:
Take a stand in your home, early and often. By starting the conversation with fourth and fifth graders, the child knows and understands the norms of alcohol use in your home early on.
Be a good role model. Children often model after their parents. If you do choose to drink alcohol or use tobacco, be responsible and don’t do it in the presence of your children.
Empower your children. Having a close bond with your child can help increase their self esteem. You can encourage your child to believe in themselves and be strong in peer pressure situations. Give them the power and skills in order for them to “refuse to use”.
Get your child involved in academics, sports, and extracurricular activities. A child who participates in activities and hobbies will be more confident and less likely to use substances. Your child will develop interests that they can carry on throughout their development.
Discuss advertising. Alcohol and tobacco companies spend billions of dollars on advertising that is highly targeted at youth. Teach your child that advertising and media purposely try to make substance use look glamorous. Give your child the skills to “read between the lines”.
Learn about resources. If you feel your child may already be at risk or you want additional help, there are many resources within the Poudre schools and the community. A few of these resources include Team Fort Collins , The Parent Education Network, and Larimer Center for Mental Health.
References:
Harvard School of Public Health
StopUnderageDrinking.org
National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism
Prevention Resources